Real Housewives of the Revolution

While most of us are familiar with the men of the American Revolution, as the saying goes…behind every great man…is a woman who didn’t make it into the history books.  

Since “trad wives” are making a comeback, I figured we could use some inspiration so that if the US continues on this current path that looks like both a Revolution and a Civil War, we women know that we can make a difference.  

Of course women in the days of the Revolution only had domestic roles to choose from and at least for now women have many other options, it’s important to understand that even in the most dire circumstances, we can be influential.  

So this weeks episode of Bitchstory is called “The Real Housewives of the Revolution”.  I had a Mercury Retrograde issue with the recording so the podcast is delayed in going out but it’ll be out Tuesday or Wednesday. 

 Here’s half the cast of RHotR


Martha Washington: The First Lady of the Revolution

Before she became the first First Lady, Martha Washington was a steadfast supporter of the Patriot cause. She spent winters at military camps, boosting morale, managing supplies, and providing comfort to General Washington and his soldiers. In this episode, we explore Martha’s resilience, her influence on the Revolution, and how she helped shape the role of women in wartime. Through her actions, Martha Washington made a significant impact on the Revolutionary War, supporting the soldiers, managing her estate, and helping George Washington maintain his leadership during such a critical period.



Elizabeth Schuyler Hamilton: Preservationist and Humanitarian

the wife of Alexander Hamilton, was more than just the spouse of a Founding Father—she was a force in her own right. Despite facing personal tragedies—including the deaths of her husband and son—Eliza remained dedicated to her family, country, and humanitarian causes. She lived to be 97, leaving behind a powerful legacy of resilience, service, and significant historical preservations of not only her own husband’s work, but also the work of Washington and others. 


Dolley Madison:

The Social Powerhouse of a New Nation

Though best known for her time as First Lady, Dolley Madison played a critical role in shaping the nation during and after the Revolution. With charm, intelligence, and an unmatched social presence, she built alliances and helped define American politics. From escaping the White House with Washington’s portrait to influencing key leaders, Dolley’s impact on the Revolution and beyond is a story worth telling.


Dolley Madison was one of the most influential First Ladies in American history. Her intelligence, charm, and political acumen helped shape the early republic.


Stay tuned for the rest of the cast…